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Are you thinking about getting divorced? |
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Are you thinking about getting divorced? Thinking about getting a divorce doesn't necessarily mean that you should
go through with it. Conversely, it could be wise to try to stop the
thinking process before it becomes a reality - only you know whether
you should.
In order to be clear that you really want to
go through with the divorce, you should use any or all of the following steps to make that determination:
Should You
actually go through with the divorce?
Step1: Examine why you're thinking about getting a divorce and clearly define and outline those reasons.
This is a vital part of determining whether you really do want to
get divorced. It is easy to naturally think you should get a divorce if
you are feeling empty, confused, alone, frustrated, etc. Do yourself a favour
and figure out what actually has you feeling the way you do and
write it down. Only then will you be able to decide whether you
should be going through with the divorce.
Step 2: Determine if guilt is seemingly forcing you to think about wanting to
get divorced.
Guilt can play a factor when you're thinking about getting a divorce, don't let it be the determining factor for wanting to
go through with your divorce. If guilt is the major reason that you want to
get divorced, sit down and re-think everything. Ask yourself if
you'll feel sorry for your spouse because you know how he or she
will react to your decision to get a divorce. |
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Step 3: Use projection to foresee how your spouse will react if you try to
get divorced.
You know whether your spouse will be pleased or disgruntled if you try to
get divorced. You also have an idea of how he or she will react if you try to patch things up and
ultimately avoid a divorce. If your spouse will react with
hatred and remorse if you try to get divorced, you should
reconsider. You may have a chance to make it work. But, if your spouse will react
with relief, you probably have the go ahead to get the paperwork
ready.
Step 4: Think about what your life would be like if you tried to
get divorced and compare that scenario with what your currently going through.
Figure out what you want out of the situation and decide what you want your future to look like. If you feel that your life will worsen by trying
get divorced, maybe you should re-think what your planning. Also, ask yourself whether or not the life you want is with your spouse, even if everything turned out exactly the way you planned for it and you were able to
get divorced.
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TODAY'S NEWS:
Divorce papers reveal the Dodgers are deeply in debt. Frank McCourt - Divorce - Law - Family Law - sport
Elin Nordegren Woods files the petition Monday and the divorce is official by midday after the golfer waives the 20-day waiting period. They will share parenting of their two young children. Tiger Woods' long-anticipated divorce settlement has been finalized.
I am not at all surprised that those who have long been advocating the introduction of divorce are up in arms against Mgr Anton Gouder. During the RTK programme (which I heard), he only stated what the teaching of the Church on divorce and remarriage is.
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If you are still thinking about getting
divorced, ask yourself, "Even if I implement this plan and manage to
go through with it, do I really want to give everything up that
we worked so hard for?
If you truly want to get divorced,
You would have done it by now! Use the right resources to determine the best course of action to do that. Divorce is serious, you should make certain for your sake and for
the sake of everyone involved that you are making the right
decision.
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