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Are you thinking about getting divorced?




Are you thinking about getting divorced? Thinking about getting a divorce doesn't necessarily mean that you should go through with it. Conversely, it could be wise to try to stop the thinking process before it becomes a reality - only you know whether you should.

In order to be clear that you really want to go through with the divorce, you should use any or all of the following steps to make that determination:

Should You actually go through with the divorce?

Step1: Examine why you're thinking about getting a divorce and clearly define and outline those reasons.

This is a vital part of determining whether you really do want to get divorced. It is easy to naturally think you should get a divorce if you are feeling empty, confused, alone, frustrated, etc. Do yourself a favour and figure out what actually has you feeling the way you do and write it down. Only then will you be able to decide whether you should be going through with the divorce.

Step 2: Determine if guilt is seemingly forcing you to think about wanting to get divorced.

Guilt can play a factor when you're thinking about getting a divorce, don't let it be the determining factor for wanting to go through with your divorce. If guilt is the major reason that you want to get divorced, sit down and re-think everything. Ask yourself if you'll feel sorry for your spouse because you know how he or she will react to your decision to get a divorce.

 

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Step 3: Use projection to foresee how your spouse will react if you try to get divorced.

You know whether your spouse will be pleased or disgruntled if you try to get divorced. You also have an idea of how he or she will react if you try to patch things up and ultimately avoid a divorce. If your spouse will react with hatred and remorse if you try to get divorced, you should reconsider. You may have a chance to make it work. But, if your spouse will react with relief, you probably have the go ahead to get the paperwork ready.

Step 4: Think about what your life would be like if you tried to get divorced and compare that scenario with what your currently going through.

Figure out what you want out of the situation and decide what you want your future to look like. If you feel that your life will worsen by trying get divorced, maybe you should re-think what your planning. Also, ask yourself whether or not the life you want is with your spouse, even if everything turned out exactly the way you planned for it and you were able to get divorced.




TODAY'S NEWS:

The divorce rate among soldiers and Marines increased last year as military marriages suffered continuing stress from America's two ongoing wars. There were an estimated 10,200 failed marriages in the active duty Army and 3,077 among Marines, according to figures obtained by The Associated Press for the budget year ended Sept. 30.

Dylan McDermott and wife Shiva Rose have finalized their divorce, ending 13 years of marriage, People reports. Per court papers, the divorce will be official Jan. 2 after the legally required six-month waiting period in California.

Dylan McDermott has finalized his divorce from his wife of nearly 13 years, Shiva Rose, according to L.A. Superior Court papers filed Tuesday. It remains unclear what custody arrangement the two have reached for their two daughters, Colette, 12, and Charlotte Rose, 3. McDermott -- who filed for divorce last May -- originally sought joint custody. Check out Hollywood's ugliest divorces. ...



If you are still thinking about getting divorced, ask yourself, "Even if I implement this plan and manage to go through with it, do I really want to give everything up that we worked so hard for?

If you truly want to get divorced, You would have done it by now! Use the right resources to determine the best course of action to do that. Divorce is serious, you should make certain for your sake and for the sake of everyone involved that you are making the right decision.

 

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